Women HATE a sure thing. They are INTRIGUED by mixed signals.
Hey, it's David.
As guys, we've sort of been programmed to believe that you have to "prove your worth" for a woman.
For years we've heard advice like "if you like her, let her know."
And because of this 'pre-programming' the minute we start liking a woman there is a little voice in our head that continually tells us that "if she just knows how much I like her, she'll want to be with me."
But the notion that women want "certainty" is DEAD WRONG.
In fact, nothing will fan the flames of attraction as much as SENDING MIXED SIGNALS.
My friend Bobby discovered there are a handful of reasons this works...
Why? Here are 8 great reasons he found:
1. It prevents you from appearing needy, clingy, or "too available."
2. When a girl can't figure you out, you have the upper hand and power in the relationship.
3. She'll begin to work harder to attract you, which creates more "investment" on her part. This is KEY. She must...
Tonight's episode is very special and very personal for David and Don.
It's the one year anniversary of the untimely passing of their dear friend, and tonight we celebrate and learn from an exceptionally well-lived life.
It is an incredibly attractive and magnetically powerful thing to live life like it's precious, see people like they matter, and make everyone around you feel important.
Building a community is literally where all your riches in life come from.
...And of course, you can't rush the preparation of a 30 lb - corned beef.
Matt Bair, we love you, and you'll always be in our hearts.
(Make sure to listen to the end, where we feature a live recording of Don presenting this amazing story at a Moth Story Slam!)
2:30 - Who Matt was. What was special and different about the way he treated people.
6:30 - Everyone goes their separate ways after graduation. It's all about the future! You don't realize you are ALWAYS living your best moments. Life is what...
You giving her a lot of attention is WRONG.
Hey, it's David.
The correct posture for a wonderful, exciting sexual fulfilling relationship is one where a woman's interest level in a man is 100%. His is slightly less. She dotes, chases, and thinks about him. He is amused and charmed and treats her like his favorite pretty little brat.
That's how to get the results the bad boy gets, and everyone else envies, without having to be bad.
Here's a parable:
A man, we'll call him "Captain Alpha," found himself in the company of lovely ladies. Alas, also in company were several men of high esteem. They were more handsome. They had more money. They had more charm. They were better in every measurable way than Captain Alpha.
But Cap knew he had the goods too, if not in such a polished way. "I will be patient and let the cards fall where they may."
Notice that this was NOT inaction. He just did not let the lovely ladies' attention get the best of him nor the success or...
Have you ever wondered why women flirt with guys they HATE?
Hey, it's David . . .
If you've ever caught a girl smiling at you, playing with her hair, flirting with you and
giving you what you thought was every signal in the book. . .
Only to have her TURN ON YOU and TREAT YOU LIKE A CREEP when you try to make eye contact or say hi; you need to go check out this crazy video right now:
PLUS it teaches you the "Magic Code Words" women need to hear to let them "drop the act." and treat you like a sex object put on this planet just for their pleasure. . .
Getting laid ain't gonna magically make your life better, but a lot of guys ask me for a quick way to get an edge in their social circles. Lawrence is it.
P.S. WARNING: If you've been REJECTED by girls before this presentation may trigger INTENSE feelings of...
The pedestal we put women on only exists in our heads.
Hey, it's David.
Let me tell you a little story - there's a good moral to this story...
A guy called a woman and asked her out. The guy was nervous, was scared; he was shy.
"So we're set for tomorrow night?"
"Umm, yeah," she replied.
Then, tomorrow night came. The guy agonized over the date the entire day.
How should he act? What shall he wear? Did he have enough money? Would he be fun enough?"
But the poor guy realized he was wasting his time worrying for there was no date. He got stood up.
Obviously, there HAD to be a reason. Perhaps something awful happened. Perhaps her car didn't start. Perhaps some incredible thing occurred in her life AT THAT TIME that kept apart the two star crossed lovers!
So he tried again. "Did we miscommunicate?" "Oh, umm...Yeah."
"You still want to go out?"
"Let's go out on this and this day. OK?"
That day comes. The guy gets stood up yet again.
Is it true that there are no marriageable men?
*Warning* Explicit language.
(Brian was out of hand tonight. If you have children, elderly, small animals or sensitivities of any kind, don't play this one! Consider yourself warned...)
1:20 - Comic books, action figures. Addiction. David and Brian confess their lifelong habits and hobbies.
3:00 - Dork culture - when it's your identity. Nerd culture is in vogue. Are nerdy men, in fact, men?
5:00 - Money spent on yourself. The power of a decision and commitment.
7:50 - "Hot Heathers" - does the wife feel like he's not taking care of business at home? Is she raising another child?
9:00 - Cautionary tale - don't be like Bradley. Don't let your wife take care of business that YOU should be taking care of.
11:00 - Napoleon Hill - the mystery of sex transmutation. Man's greatest desire is to please woman. Men are being robbed of this key motivation today.
13:00 - Article - "The future of men and...
Remember how she used to want to jump your bones for no reason at all?
Hey, it's David.
I want to explain something critically important to you in as few words as possible...
...Short, sweet, and directly to the point.
It's an unconscious habit that negatively influences EVERY MAN'S sexual energy, attractiveness and, therefore, the quality of his sex life...
What's the trait she can smell at the molecular level every time you do it?
It's the constant churning of a hidden agenda to convince, persuade, manipulate, or BARGAIN your way into her pants.
Let me make this really clear.
She can smell the following things like a wet dog on her pillow:
- Any attempt to do something with an expectation you should get a sexual reward in return.
- Any unspoken sense of entitlement to her body and genitalia.
- Any implication that you're keeping score and she owes you something.
- Any feeling that you're tricking her into a secret contract in which the payoff is you getting...
Each year in America alone, nearly 1 million marriages end in divorce.
Hey, it's David.
That number is INSANE.
That would be as if all the citizens of Houston, Texas were divorced (each divorce leaves two people).
It's a national disaster. And I can tell you the divorce rates are similar in every other first world country.
Today I have an outstanding guest article for you from a good friend and associate of mine, Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
He's a renowned marriage counselor, and he's going to hit you with some hard truth.
Can your marriage be saved? If I could answer that, I would be a wealthy man. I can tell you that if your marriage is in trouble and you do nothing, the outcome is guaranteed. If you do something, there is a much better chance that your marriage will be saved.
And I can tell you, in four simple steps what you can do to save your marriage. You can start right now. But you must understand that I said "simple." That is not...
How do you trust someone you don't trust?
Hey, it's David.
Have you ever heard these phrases about TRUST?
"In God We Trust...all others must bring cash."
"I don't trust anyone unless they EARN IT!"
"I trusted you, and then you broke my heart!"
When it comes to relationships, we must decide if trust is a starting point or an end result.
Is trust something you can give even when you're not sure it's "deserved"?
Bren? Brown quotes Charles Feltman, author of "The Thin Book of Trust," who describes trust as "choosing to risk making something you value vulnerable to another person's actions." Meanwhile, distrust is deciding that "what is important to me is not safe with this person in this situation (or any situation)."
I believe trust is required for CONNECTION.
Every man in The Alpha Shift wants more connection, but he often thinks, speaks, and acts from a place of distrust. Distrust comes from fear of outcome and produces unspeakable anxiety and monkey chatter....
New Podcast Episode!
David and Don take on the Nice Guy/Bad Boy paradox.
This was a really fun episode, and you'll get two different perspectives on this from two different life paths - enjoy!
Do Nice Guys finish last?
2:47 - become the best version of yourself before getting into a relationship.
- Evolve and grow and change as you go and that's a good thing. We are never going to be perfect.
- A little better than the day before - Kaizen. 1% improvement every day.
- Know your purpose in life.
5:00 - if you're not following your purpose, she'll become less interested and actually think it's something wrong with HER.
- Need to be excited for the next day to begin.
7:18 - Tying a good tie knot. David asks for Don's help. Half Windsor knot. One of the hidden benefits of going to catholic school.
9:15 - one in 16 women reported first sexual encounter was not consensual.
- Fifty shades - nice guy young boys self-worth and validation.
- Exotic dancer pressured to...
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