Are you "friends" with your ex-girlfriend?
Hey, it's David.
Maybe your ex suggested it would be a good idea to be friends...
...or maybe you think it's "better than nothing" if the alternative is losing her forever.
Being friends with your ex is actually almost always a bad idea and a recipe for additional (and unnecessary) heartache.
That's especially true if you want to get your ex back, but it's even true if you're ready to move on and don't want to get back together.
And although the "friend zone" is a terrible place to be with your ex, so many people fall for this trap because it's such a tempting idea.
I mean, your ex is giving you an option that allows you to maintain contact with the person you've loved for some time and, in theory, this will allow you to move on gently and slowly without the intense feelings of loneliness that often accompany a breakup.
After all, if you can slowly wean yourself off those romantic feelings rather than going...
Can you be ruthlessly picky enough to hold out for a good one?
Hey, it's David.
If you are not picking carefully and selecting a high-quality woman at the outset of a relationship, nothing else you do through the course of your interaction will matter.
Many a man has lived in misery because he found an empowered woman who was brought up always to put herself first and has no interest in giving or in being pleasant or feminine.
Georgia Free is a prolific Youtuber who speaks out about the deceptions of feminism and how women are being robbed of their happiness.
Whenever I can, I like to highlight this sensitive subject with the voices of strong, intelligent women who are speaking out behalf of women.
See what I did there?
...That's my slick way of dodging being called a misogynist.
In brief, a high-quality woman:
1. Doesn't bring politics into a relationship. Your relationship isn't political and should not be...
I have a powerful guest article for you guys. It's called "Femininity is a Woman's Superpower." It's written by a good friend of mine, relationship coach Andre Paradis.
Some of you may remember I was a guest on his podcast a few months ago.
Andre demystifies communication between men and women, and he's particularly good at helping over masculinized women find their femininity again.
In the article, he also draws quotes from another good friend of mine, dating coach and mentor for men, Adam Gilad. There is a lot of gold in this.
Andre and his wife Nancy espouse the dance between the masculine and the feminine better than any two people I personally know. I would encourage you to check them out - link below.
When you read this article, you'll understand why so many women turn you right the hell off.
You'll also understand what that "thing" is in women that you yearn for and don't seem to find.
Read this a few times. Share it with women that you love.
Would the last woman you dated say you were the best lover she had ever been with?
Hey, it's David.
Let me tell you something - your woman's sexual satisfaction matters. She DOES keep score.
And if you leave her wanting, sooner or later, she's going to be looking around.
You want to know how to "bring her the ruckus" so to speak. Here are a few reasons just for you to consider:
1. It's way more fun.
I don't know a guy who doesn't love getting women off, feeling her go crazy with desire, making her completely lose control, leave her spent and shaking when you're done.
2. It builds connection, loyalty, and... love
If you want to eventually turn this entire "meeting women" thing into a real relationship, then you must know that one of the things that makes a woman say to herself, "this guy just might be the one!" is being able to rock her world in bed.
Women love to be able to tell their friends:
"The first time we made love I knew this guy was special... he did...
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Hey, It's David.
So it's my birthday. I'm a Virgo. Leo if you go by Vedic Astrology (which I feel is more accurate).
I feel younger than I've felt in a long time. I'm in better shape than I've ever been.
The best is still to come.
And to celebrate I'm doing something I NEVER do - and it's only until midnight tonight...
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This is my signature course. It will help you to:
* Increase your influence with women, virtually making them fall in love with you at will.
* Generate attraction instantly without having to rely on lame pickup lines and "openers."
* Get out of the dreaded "Friendzone" and turn a casual friend or co-worker into a devoted lover.
* Get your ex-girlfriend or wife back and make sure she never leaves again.
* How to cure your "dead bedroom" and get her craving your touch once again.
"This course literally saved my marriage by...
Death by Female. That's the tongue-in-cheek phrase I've adopted to describe the type of man who tends to read my newsletters.
Hey, it's David.
Here's the scenario that we all know so well:
Somehow, someway, somewhere along the way you've been made aware that things aren't right. She's not happy. She's doesn't talk to you or look at you like before.
Her cold, dismissive and often disrespectful attitude toward you feels like a daily dagger in the gut.
The new friends, new tattoo, new smoking habit, new social calendar, and missing wedding rings are just a few of the clues jacking with your confidence.
Then she utters, I think we need time apart. I need space. Maybe we're not right for each other. (you can add on your own favorites).
Why do so many men (I raise my hand) live their lives so focused on doing what's needed to keep others happy without really taking care of ourselves?
Why do we blindly keep our nose on the grindstone, providing money, support and...
Sometimes we all need to getaway.
Hey, it's David.
Does your wife or girlfriend sometimes act like she would rather be anywhere on this planet but with you?
Does this get under your skin and make you boiling mad?
Do you feel hurt, unappreciated, and ignored?
Let's talk about how men and women feel the PRESSURE to get away.
Let's talk about how we can reduce the pressure and create an environment where softness, relaxation, and closer INTIMACY is possible.
It's that constant aggressive, loud, nagging, disappointed, disapproving, urgent pressure to do something you're not doing or to be someone you're not being. They are "just trying to help" or "just trying to see if you care."
It feels awful, and there's just no amount of "communication" that's going to fix it in the moment. All you can do is try to ESCAPE it.
That's precisely how some women feel when we are "just being the way we are."
Why do some guys apply a similar kind of pressure to women?
My business, my blog, and my entire online presences are called "The Alpha Shift."
You read that and think this guy thinks he knows how we can all be "Alpha Males" or some such thing like that.
I suppose. I'm trying. But as I grow and evolve, as I'm always doing, the definition of that changes.
We took the term from nature. For instance, the alpha male of a wolf pack is stronger than the other males and mates with most of the females.
He is strong. His genes are desirable. And we try to juxtapose these values onto human relationships. We want to be the alpha male in of own worlds so our wives girlfriends and everyone else will value us above all others. They'll want to have our children not some else's.
Here's what it has come to mean to me:
It's the picture above.
It's the man who can go into the mountains and kill his food, carry it home with blood dripping from his hands, abundantly feed and provide for his family, then make love to his woman.
Famous American actress Kristen Bell is a real bitch.
Sarah Marshall, Veronica Mars, and the voice of Princess Anna from Disney's "Frozen" has depression issues and a tendency to "fight badly", slam doors, and leave the house when she gets into fights with her husband.
This is all by her own account. I'm not making it up, and no one else is accusing her.
In this video, I want you to listen to how Bell describes her actor husband, Dax Shepard and how he handled this tendency to "fight badly."
He simply told her, "I have more respect for myself than that, and that's just not going to happen."
And he didn't care if that meant losing her or not.
This is a guy who knows what he wants and when he's willing to take a stand. He won't accept toxic fighting, plain and simple.
What a great example of how owning your shit and being strong looks.
And Kristen said in the interview how HOT it was that he wouldn't take her shit.
The truth is indeed found in reality....
"If you don't know what you want, you end up with a lot you don't." ~ Chuck Palahniuk (author of Fight Club)
In life, business, and relationships, failure usually comes due to the inability to answer one simple question:
"What do you want?"
Knowing the answer clearly and concisely can be the difference between a guy wallowing in limbo for years and a guy who quickly and consciously moves forward.
I know because I've experienced both.
And for today's newsletter, I'm not talking about when you've got a menu in your hand, and the waitress says, "Do you know what you want?"
If you can't even figure out what you want for lunch, go ahead and slap yourself.
What I'm talking about is the utter lack of vision that results in a guy who is facing an ongoing, disinterested, icy chill from his wife.
Whenever we ask a guy like that, "Do you know what you want?" he answers quickly:
I'm tired of her ignoring me.
I'm sick of feeling like her last priority.
I'm don't want to live...
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