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Thou shalt not make her number one

Uncategorized Jan 04, 2019

Dudes are seriously backward today.

Women and society have told us they want us to be sensitive, evolved and emotional.

And, God bless em, they're not lying. They really do believe they want that.

Especially when they have fallen for narcissistic bad boys and been shit on.

But they really have no idea what drives them emotionally or biologically.

Which is why they fall for narcissistic bad boys and get shit on!

Women want powerful, effective men.

Supplicating nice guys project weakness and approval seeking.

The bad boy can at least imitate strength and power.

The key to having strength and power is being dedicated to your own mission.

This is attractive. And it's how you want to be anyway.

I've written before about the old pickup artist Roissy and his 16 Commandments of Poon.

What I didn't realize was that many of them came from what was clearly Roissy's study of David Deida, author of "Way Of The Superior Man."

(If you haven't read that book, read it.)

In fact, commandment number 3, which I'll discuss in a moment, is partly a verbatim repeat of chapter 7 of "Way Of The Superior Man."

That chapter is called "Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship."

Roissy's Third Commandment is:

"You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority."


"Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him.

Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be "The One" or the center of a man's existence.

They, in fact, want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man's life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out.

You must respect a woman's integrity and not lie to her that she is "your everything." She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore."


Women do not understand this THEMSELVES.

They watch the fucking Notebook and think that's how true love works.

Life is wonderful, but it is NOT a Nicholas Sparks romance novel or a Disney movie.

In fact, someone should have told Nicholas Sparks that. In 2015, his wife, the love of his life and the muse for many of his romantic stories left him.

Reality is a bitch.

The prince never "has" the princess in real life. If he gets lazy, if he settles into his marriage or whatever and stops being the badass that he was when they hooked up, rot will set in.

The relationship de-polarizes. He is not being masculine. She then won't open up the feminine.

She loses attraction and is confused as to why.

She'll always be confused. Women don't understand this shit, they're too busy being a storm of random emotions.

It's up to YOU to know this.

And one of the key components of remaining attractive and relevant is to have a powerful mission and be monogamous to THAT.

A woman can't be your everything. She doesn't think enough of herself to allow that.

She'll wonder what the fuck is wrong with you and start to regard you with contempt.

She'd much rather be subordinate to you and your mission.

That's her warm fuzzy place. That will allows her to continue to get the "tingles" when she thinks of you.

To your success,




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