Hey it's David,
People ask me sometimes why I take such a hardline approach to relationship coaching.
Why the "red pill" perspective?
Why are you always talking about the pitfalls of women? Why point out evolutionary DNA, Hypergamy, the concept of all women are like that, and there are no good girls (not quite true)?
It's pretty doom and gloom.
And don't you have a great relationship anyway?
Shouldn't you just talk about the positive aspects and just teach guys how to be happy?
These are good questions.
Sometimes I ask myself what makes me such a hardliner.
And the answer is that it's NECESSARY.
We were just having lunch with some old friends, and my buddy was recounting how he and his wife are re-listening to an old Earl Nightingale sales/motivational program called "Lead The Field."
In it, Earl Nightingale discusses the concept of keeping himself "mentally broke."
This is so that he will always be hungry, always making more sales, always building his business - always keep the eye of the tiger so to speak.
This prevents complacency, and ultimately rot, from setting in.
This set off a light bulb in my head.
When I write, when I comment, and when I'm actually living my life, I'm keeping myself "relationship broke."
I do all the shit I write about and teach. Everyday.
If you slip up, if she smells weakness, even if you think is she the nicest girl in the world, all the bad shit sets in.
We say "all women are like that" for a reason.
And If all I talked about how well my life works now and put up inspirational memes, it wouldn't be relatable to the guys I'm trying to help.
They'd tune out. I would.
Let's get "red pill" real for a minute:
we all HATE to hear how someone is doing better than us.
I'm not here to make you want to gag...
I want to polarize you.
I want to motivate you to ACT.
I will talk about all the good things that come out of the hard work, I promise.
I'm building a comprehensive course to create a complete identity shift that will make you the man you knew you always could be.
It's on its way.
But, for now, you need to develop the habit of staying mentally broke in your relationships.
When you understand that your wife, your girlfriend, your princess, is a real human being who is always exhaustively thinking and analyzing, you'll understand that you never get to "relax."
Don't get lazy.
Don't get fat. Keep your ass in shape. Forever. I don't care if you're 90.
Don't stop dating her. Ever.
It's up to YOU to keep the bedroom spicy.
Look, the in love chemical reaction lasts at MOST 2 years. It can end in as little as a few days.
Any two idiots can fall in love with all that dopamine flying around.
After that, it's up to you.
Most relationships don't make it past two years.
After that, you need to apply horsepower. You need to take deliberate action every day to keep your relationship healthy.
Most men don't do this.
That's why 51% of marriages end in divorce.
And 80% of those divorces are initiated by WOMEN.
So if I seem a little fire and brimstone sometimes, it's because this is serious shit!
Look, there are other dating coaches on Facebook and Instagram that put up feel good memes that make me want to fucking throw up.
"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
"Love is a promise, love is a souvenir. Once given, never forgotten, never let it disappear."
There, I just threw up in my mouth a little as I was typing that.
It's real btw.
An actual (male) dating coach is posting this drivel.
The idiot who posts this stuff is not shy about how single he is.
Most of his sizable following are women.
(Maybe he's using that platform to get attention and make himself feel better.)
They comment enthusiastically to these garbage memes calling them "truth" and whatever.
I guarantee you this guy is not banging ANY of these women.
Nor is he selling them anything.
In fact, all he offers is half hour coaching for 20 bucks a pop with an amateur looking website.
And he calls himself a life coach.
"Beta douchebags R Us" is what he should be called.
The touchy-feely nice sounding stuff is a terrible distraction from what you really need to get the results you want in life.
It'll always come back to making a decision, taking massive and immediate action and then staying the course through thick and thin to you win. Period.
Forget the fucking love memes. , and stay mentally broke.
Hone yourself into an attractive, effective, exciting man that any woman cannot help but to want to get closer to.
Display masculine qualities. Have a life. Be a leader.
THAT, my friend, is going to get you much farther that wishful fucking thinking and nice sentiments.
And if you ever catch me pandering to women's sentiments, just remind me of this article, and I will immediately quit and never be heard from again.
End of rant.
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