In the last few articles, I've talked at length about how to increase your value as a man and become way more badass.
I've talked about increasing your intelligence and competence, the power of being positive and supportive, and the incredible importance of physical fitness and dressing well.
This is powerful and worth doing in its own right.
Becoming a better you is its own reward. It changes the way you feel about yourself, and that ultimately changes the way others feel about you.
But in the meantime...
You guys in relationships may be disappointed to hear that doing everything I've recommended to this point may not have your wife or girlfriend ripping your clothes off twice a day for a romp in the sack.
She may very well want to, but she's just not sure how to go about expressing her renewed sexual desire for you. Like everything else in marriage, as a masculine husband, you need to take the lead and assert yourself in the bedroom.
So what to do?
Go to bed naked. Kiss her wherever it is on her body that makes her tingle. Give her an impromptu massage without asking if it's okay ahead of time.
If you want sex from your wife, it's up to you as a man to take what you want. Nine times out of ten she'll be more than happy to oblige your masculine, take-charge advances.
On the off chance that she doesn't - and this is important - you have to remain positive. Sure, it'll be a small blow to your confidence. It doesn't matter.
Act as if her rejection doesn't faze you in the least, stay positive, and try again tomorrow.
This kind of reaction will put her on edge as she realizes she can't use her vajayjay to manipulate you, emotionally or otherwise.
Your ability to walk away from sexual rejection is the epitome of self-confidence.
Your wife will pick up on this and trust me when I tell you that this will serve you well in the long run.
Hell, she might think you have someone on the side. And you know what? Let her.
Competition anxiety is good for a woman.
Women want sex with a masculine man. Be that man.
Men today who are trapped in disappointingly sexless marriages (and there are many) have nobody to blame but themselves. It's their own actions and behaviors sapping the sexual energy from their wives. It will require an intentional change in behavior to reverse this undesirable trend.
A woman's sexual appetite is fed in large part by a man's masculine counterpoint to her feminine nature. They'll say that they want a weak-willed, sensitive man of compromise. Their actions prove otherwise.
Never mind what they say. Always watch what they do.
All those so-called benefits of feminizing your husband be damned.
You want to be desired by your wife?
Be bold and decisive. Get fit, strong, and healthy. Lead by example. Exercise your mind. Work to better yourself. Mind your physical appearance. Stay positive. Assert yourself in the bedroom.
Fixing a sexless marriage isn't always easy, but it is simple.
Start being a man.
Ready to get started?
PS - And let me tell you if all of this doesn't fix your marriage if she just won't come around, you're still good. Because the next woman will fucking go crazy for you.
Focus on the ones who want you.
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