As men, our obsession with sex is our weakness.
It is the single most powerful cause of ruination in our lives.
Think about it:
How many bad decisions have we made to get or keep access to a woman's vagina?
And let me give you one point of clarification:
Sex isn't just about penis in vagina, pumping back and forth - it's the polarity of masculine and feminine energy and the satisfaction and validation we get from that.
...And yes, also the intimacy and the penis in vagina sex.
Married men compromise and become cowards, afraid of meeting with their wives disapproval.
Single men endlessly swipe right, go to clubs and plot and plan to "get" a woman because somehow this prize he thinks will make him happy.
...They waste time that could be much better spent building their life mission and career because their desire is so strong.
Look, at the DNA level, we are designed to find young nubile feminine women with a great hip to waist ratio who are healthy and strong and could bear us healthy children. That's what the body's got going on.
And modern society and marketing and the media now have all of us (men and women) completely sex obsessed. Women have been fully liberated, whatever that actually means, they are pursuing careers putting off and even opting out of marriage and family and are free to enjoy hook up culture.
Men are really no better. We went along, for the most part, hoping for easier access to that all-powerful punnai. And we did get that somewhat.
But think about what we lost.
So today, because of society and media influence and our own bodily urges, we carry the potential for our own ruination around with us. We waste so much time looking for tacit approval from women.
And women today deserve less of our romantic attention than ever.
They don't care to be good partners. They don't even know how to do that or understand why it would serve them to do so. They are utterly lost.
They are victims too. Taught to be go-getters and not need a man, virtually from the time they are born, they are not only lousy marriage prospects but potentially toxic.
And I've had this conversation with many women that I love, so don't get it in your head that I'm some sort of closet misogynist.
Just understand that in a relationship men NEED to be respected (i.e., their lead followed) and women NEED to be loved (I will be the first to say many men need a lot of help making women feel loved).
Those problems I cannot resolve here today.
My point for now:
Stop chasing women.
Start chasing your passion and your purpose.
This means build your career and your income. Related to that is your great purpose and mission in life.
What do you care about?
Men who have a passion are hot to women, and frankly, have more life in them.
Build your lifestyle and your network. You need to have an interesting life. This will be a huge element of your happiness.
Build your body and your personal style. There is nothing more satisfying than becoming the effective, powerful man you always wanted to be.
In fact, that's about the only thing you can actually do that will really bring your happiness.
This is what is meant when we say happiness is an inside job.
You get to a certain point in your life when you finally realize nothing is going to make you happy. Not money, not sex, not relationships, not validation. There will always be something missing.
Make yourself awesome. Make that your chief aim. Make that what you chase.
That will light your fire from the inside out.
...You will be in a far better position to attract the kind of girl who complements who you've become and the lifestyle you've created.
PS - I have a course that will show you step by step how to become the man that you've always wanted to be and the kind of man who will be a magnet to high caliber women.
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