I'm always asking guys what their number one pain is, either in dating success, or in their current ongoing relationship.
I guess it's only fair that I share with you MY greatest pain.
The long game.
You see, I'm in a long term relationship - going on 4 and a half years.
That's longer than most marriages last these days.
I established this relationship by being dominant, acting like a man, making decisions, opening doors, taking control in the bedroom and hanging back, making absolutely certain her want for me was greater than my want for her.
That, by the way, is proper balance in any relationship between a man and a woman.
The challenge is that, after that much time together and living together for 2 years, she's sees me. All of me. The good. The bad. The ugly.
It takes constant vigilance to keep the sexual tension alive - to remember it's importance.
It's takes constant vigilance to be present and LISTEN. And to pay close attention to what is going on in her life.
Getting a woman is fucking EASY.
(ANY guy can be attractive for a month or three.)
Keeping one, and keeping the relationship growing and heathy? Well...
...That's what separates the men from the boys.
Staying ever vigilant and picking my self up when I fall...
...THAT is my greatest challenge.
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