Take some pride in your appearance.
You don't need to drop thousands of dollars on a polished wardrobe. You just need to put a little thought into what you're wearing to make sure it comes off clean. Show you care about the way you look.
The best way to think about your style is to dress as if you were single. Dressing in a way that would attract the attention of single females will also attract the attention of your partner.
This also applies when you're just hanging out with your family. I'm sure you don't feel very special when your wife comes home from work or a night out with friends and immediately takes to a tee-shirt and sweatpants.
A wife whose husband does this doesn't feel very special either.
Look good for your wife. She notices how you dress. Dressing like a typical married schlub is only going to land you with the same barely existent sex life of one.
I go into how to do this in detail in The Alpha Shift, but let me give you a couple of pointers here to get you started:
1. Shoes. Get some good shoes. Leather brown and black pairs. Dress shoes, oxfords, whatever. Shop around. Always go with classic styles.
2. Dress shirts. Tucked in or out.
3. At least one good blue blazer. This will be a staple of your wardrobe.
This is your daily wardrobe. Suits for work and special occasions. Do it.
There is very little point in getting your body in shape if you dress like shit.
Your fitness and the way you dress powerfully telegraph how you feel about yourself.
You've done a lot of the work before you even walk in the room.
Being excellent in all areas, is something you want to do for yourself as a man first and foremost. But when it comes to your relationships with women, it's far easier to maintain from a place of you being excellent and being a prize, rather than always trying to do or say the right thing in some sort of measured or calculated way. That's exhausting and unsustainable.
Get in shape and dress right.
Look for the final article in this series in a few days. That's where we now get to the sexy stuff.
PS - As a part of The Alpha Shift I go a lot deeper into how you can dress your best as well as how best to attack it in the gym and become the best version of yourself.
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