There has been a lot of griping in the manosphere lately about the quality of women who are decent relationship material.
And rightfully so.
It’s true that feminism and the “you go girl” PC culture has socially engineered most modern women to be inept and arguably USELESS life partners.
That’s the Red Pill truth.
But there are still a few good ones out there.
“Quality comes to quality” as the old saying goes.
Water seeks its own level.
You can always find quality women no matter what time you're living in…
Whether it’s the Ward and June Cleaver 1950s…
…Or the damned end of the world – kind of like right now.
You will always find quality, regardless of the period you find yourself in.
Well first – YOU need to be the quality or qualities that you seek.
The first thing you need to do is ask yourself what you stand for.
Unless you can clarify and identify what your UTMOST VALUES are in life, you won’t be able to find or attract a woman who espouses those same values.
Why shoot randomly in the dark when you have the option of turning on the lights and removing your own blindfold?
If you can list three core values that you live by, clarity comes into the picture, and you will be able to navigate toward women that share and appreciate the same things you do.
Value will always come to value, just as water seeks its own level.
Tony Robbins talks about writing down all of the attributes that you want your future mate to have.
No matter how vain or trivial, write down everything that comes to your mind.
Then go over that list a second time with some deeper thought and check off only the attributes and values that are absolute musts; those without which the deal if off.
Once you can pinpoint accurately and precisely what you are after and what you need, the end game becomes a lot clearer.
But you must write it down on paper because only then does it become a goal.
Up until then, it remains merely a wish inside of your own head.
Once you recognize the qualities and attributes you are truly after; you need to start asking yourself where women of that specific ilk spend their time.
What is their turf, as it were?
Whereas over 50 years ago, 80-90% of the women were relationship material; the inverse is true today.
Yet, there is still that 10-20% demographic which ARE viable, and that shouldn’t be discounted.
That minority demographic needs to become your target and hunting grounds.
So, the question then becomes:
Where do you find these women?
Let’s use logic to break it down:
If you are looking for a woman with high moral character, the answer might be a church or a humanitarian cause.
If you are looking for a woman who takes care of her physical appearance and condition, your answer may reside in a beauty salon, a gym, or a sports team.
If you are looking for a woman with traditional cooking and homemaking skills, your answer may be found on an internet forum that caters to that, or maybe a cooking class in your neighborhood.
If you are looking for a woman who is empathetic and kind, how about a nursing student?
It just takes a little common sense.
One more thing:
Change your mindset.
When I read a lot of the comments in the manosphere, the red pill community and online in general, I sense a lot of guys have abandoned hope.
They feel that there are no good, quality girls out there.
That just isn’t true.
Yes, it’s gotten harder to find a good woman and start a relationship, but it’s certainly still doable.
Besides, abandoning hope does you no favors.
It will just make you cynical.
And no one in their right mind is drawn to cynicism.
Remember, like attracts like.
You get more of what you focus on.
If you, my friend, do not exude value, how the do you expect a woman of high value to be drawn to you?
Water seeks its own level.
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