You giving her a lot of attention is WRONG.
Hey, it's David.
The correct posture for a wonderful, exciting sexual fulfilling relationship is one where a woman's interest level in a man is 100%. His is slightly less. She dotes, chases, and thinks about him. He is amused and charmed and treats her like his favorite pretty little brat.
That's how to get the results the bad boy gets, and everyone else envies, without having to be bad.
Here's a parable:
A man, we'll call him "Captain Alpha," found himself in the company of lovely ladies. Alas, also in company were several men of high esteem. They were more handsome. They had more money. They had more charm. They were better in every measurable way than Captain Alpha.
But Cap knew he had the goods too, if not in such a polished way. "I will be patient and let the cards fall where they may."
Notice that this was NOT inaction. He just did not let the lovely ladies' attention get the best of him nor the success or failures of his competition.
The lovely ladies would cry, "Come here you!" and the other guys would rush to them. When they did it to Cap, though, he just laughed, replied, bantered, AND WENT ON HIS WAY.
The other guys, more handsome, more beautiful, lost the girls because they could not hold back their NEEDINESS for a girlfriend.
Neediness is chick repellant.
Captain Alpha ended up with the girls.
"I now understand," he smiled with a couple of girls on his arms:
"Patience is a refined sense of confidence."
"But DK," you cry: "How can patience be confidence? Isn't confidence courage? Isn't confidence action? How is patience, courageous, or action?"
Let rewind and ask Captain Alpha:
As the scene replays, we see many hot women around, all being hit on by other men.
"Captain Alpha, what do you do?!"
Cap just shrugs and LAUGHS.
"What!" you ask. "These other guys are going to take your women! How can you be so laid-back?"
The answer: He is laid back because he knows how great a catch he is and that getting women is easy. He knows he is the Prince.
The women are not significant! Newsflash: Women will come and go.
The focus must be on you!
The guys that can get almost any women are not scared or nervous that other guys are hitting on girls. He knows things the other guys never will. In fact, he might let them have free reign to weed out the desperate and stupid chicks from the smart and picky ones.
As with muscles, it is the strong guys that know they are capable who are quiet and patient.
It is the noisy guys that lack the skills.
It is the large dogs that are quieter while the small dogs make up for their size with their obnoxious bark. It is the patient ones that control the world; the impatient ones are controlled by it!
Your mission isn't to get anything. You need to become something. Become your own version of "Captain Alpha."
To the powerful nonplussed man, all good things come.
Here endeth today's lesson on life and relationships.
PS - Becoming the ultimate version of yourself is what The Alpha Shift is all about. Follow my simple plan, and you can become Captain Alpha.
-You will feel amazing.
-Women will give you attention without you having to work for it.
-If you're married, this can heal your connection with your wife.
-Things will come your way. You will be luckier.
-You'll be happier, and SHE will be happier. Everyone wins.
-Disco will come back in style.
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